not all those who wander are lost

For years, that quote has served as a guide. A reminder that just because I chose to wander through life does not mean that I am lost, or aimless, or less driven than those who choose to lead a more traditional lifestyle. Society places undue pressure on those who do not conform to its norms. How can a woman in her 30s not be married/have kids/be settled down already? Gasp. Something clearly must be wrong with her.

Well, I am here to tell you there is nothing wrong with her. I was so excited to turn 30 last year. Finally, I remember thinking, I know who I am. I know what I want. I am comfortable in my own skin, and I am more than okay with the life I have chosen. I wouldn't want it any other way. Flash forward to turning 31, and I'm again reminded that it can still be a struggle at times. Life continues to provide the most amazing, wonderful surprises. And then it turns around and kicks you in the ass. Our power, however, lies within our response. Do we surrender, or do we have the resilience to get back up?

2013 has been a trying year to say the least. It was full of moments of complete bliss and moments of utter heartbreak, and I would be lying to you if I didn't say I've really been struggling lately. But in choosing not to surrender, I choose to move forward. My goal for this blog is to have an outlet and actively work on self healing. I do this best through writing. To celebrate this decision, I took a step I have been contemplating for some time, just never quite had the courage to take. I am pleased with the results:

So for all who actively choose to swim upstream, who choose to break the rules a little bit, and who don't want to settle for mediocre - cheers to you. May you find happiness wherever your path leads.